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OK - I admit - I'm tired.

I've read all the guru's instructions (by the way - what is the job
description of a guru?) (What makes them a guru?)(Does guru's mode of
operation make it right for everyone?)

Well we may all put our pants on one leg at a time and our socks one
foot at a time, but that doesn't make them all look good when they
are on. One may look neat - the other one sloppy.

The point I am making is everyone has their own talent and when you
wrap your talent in someone elses wrapping - you don't look the same.

We have entry level people coming on board every day trying to operate
like a professional.

The level of frustration is very high and they feel like they are brain
damaged and cannot learn. Remember that professionals did not get to
be a professional over night.

They may be trying to sell you their product which they developed over
a long period of time in a way which makes it look so simple that "anyone"
can do it.

They cover over all the flaws in such a way that it would make the brush
strokes that brush out the flaws on models look like childs play.

Everything that looks perfect has brush strokes on it. Why? Perfection
sells. Everyone wants to be perfect - but perfect is not normal. Everyone
would like to look like the models and everyone would like to be as rich
as Bill Gates.

We all have flaws. Some can be brushed out with a little brush and
some may need a big brush. You know I actually thought that posting
all e-mail I get in my newsletter would be a deterrant to my readers -
but it has worked the other way.

When I post an e-mail where someone has corrected me on something has
made my readers have more faith in what I say because it is believable.
I believe in being honest in all things. That way you don't have to
remember all the promises you made that you can't keep.

Read all the testimonies on the web (the guru's say you have to have
these) Who do you think is going to post a negative one?

It's alright to come on line and be "entry level."
Just start searching for a product which you can have faith in and learn
the most responsible and believable way to promote it. Remember there
are more "entry level" people out there looking for products and
the know how to do it. Not everyone comes on board a professional.

What makes us think that we can come on board, learn the computer,
find a product, learn marketing skills and start pulling in $20,000
per month. That is not realistic, so why do we beat ourselves up over
it.

There are three levels of internet marketing.
Entry Level
Intermediate
Professional

Go back to basics - we learned to crawl before we could walk. We learned to
walk before we could run, we learned to run before we could sprint.

If you are "entry level" - be content in that until you yourself
determine you should move up to Intermediate level - then be content
with that until you yourself determine when you should move into the
playing field of the Professional.

I know how hard it is to work for weeks on a new site, launch it and
start marketing it. The first thing you do is start comparing your
newfound knowledge with all the professionals with their fancy coding,
flash work, fancy forms and right away draw back like a turtle drawing
its head back into the shell.

Don't you realize that every day there are thousands and thousands of
people just coming on board and getting their feet wet, they would
love to fall into a site that they can relate to and not feel overwhelmed
with all the bells and whistles.

We'll all get there - just not overnight. My husband and I have been
in some form of sales for many, many - oooooh many - years and you
see people trying to make themselves over to be like someone else and
you will fall on your face. We all have a built in inner self - and
the old saying of 'to thine own self be true" is never more true than
in marketing.

Just because you buy a car that will go 150 miles an hour doesn't
mean you drive at 150 miles an hour every minute you are on the road.
Slow down - take it at your own pace - stop and smell the roses.

Be your own person - not a carbon copy of someone you think is more
successful. Stop and look in the mirror - there just may be someone
looking at your journey trying to copy you. A copy of a copy of a copy
gets weaker with each copy. Be original - go with that gut feeling - it's
there for a reason.

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Sharon Lambkin
Publisher e4u Newsletter

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That's it for this issue of the e4u Snippit - thanks for stopping by -

Publisher - Sharon Lambkin
http://starterkithaven.com/index2.htm

309 E. Pompano
Rockport, TX 78382
361-790-9462
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